A War Story Not in Books: Memorial Day in Bridgewater, CT

June 2, 2016 — 6 Comments

The Memorial Day Parade in my town of Bridgewater, Connecticut takes 11 minutes.

Newcomers to town are told to “get there early, or you’ll miss it….and you had better get there early, because it begins at 8:15 A.M.”

Every year, there is a ceremony that follows the parade. The boy scouts lead the pledge, and students recite The Gettysburg Address. Small American flags are clutched in the hands of children, volunteer fireman in uniform stand at attention, and there is always a small puppy in the crowd.

The reason we gather together, however, is always for a more somber tribute. The names of those recently deceased residents who served in the military in defense of the country are read aloud. Then, there is a guest speaker.

Memorial Day

Bridgewater resident John Kracen telling his real war story

This year, resident John Kracen told a real war story.

He began his war story with the date: July 29, 1967, a “date that would change forever the lives of 5,000 men.”

He described the location: Gulf of Tonkin, during the Vietnam War.

He named the ship: the USS Forrestal.

As Kracen began his real war story, he described the ship, a Forrestal-class aircraft carrier: 990 ft at waterline, steam turbines, 33 knots. He then described the aircraft on board, and included the F-4B Phantom II that accidentally fired a Zuni rocket on the flight deck that July morning. He described how that misfired rocket hit another aircraft’s external fuel tanks leaking jet fuel, spreading a fire across the flight deck.

Kracen described how one of the Composition B bombs detonated minutes after the start of the fire, tearing a hole into the ship’s hull. He described how the shrapnel from that explosion pierced the water hoses of the fire crew and that the burning jet fuel drained into a lower bay of the ship.

Near me, a small boy sitting on the curb of the Green listening to Kracen turned to his mother. “What is happening, Mom?” he asked quietly.

“It’s a story,” she whispered back.

The boy turned his attention back to Kracen to listen.

Kracen continued telling the story of his friend, Stephen L. Hock, who had gone to help put out the fires that continued throughout the night. He described Hock’s kindness and his camaraderie.  He then told us that his friend Stephen Hock was one of the 134 men killed on the USS Forrestal because of the fire.

For a small town, 1,727 residents, Bridgewater has significant connections to history. During the morning’s Memorial Day Roll Call, there was “survivor of Iwo Jima” from World War II who had his name read aloud.  Now, his neighbors stood in the soft rain listening to a survivor from another historical event tell his story from a different war.

A war story has power when it is a first-hand account. The poet Walt Whitman (1819–1892) was a first-hand witness to events of the Civil War and his auto-biographical accounts of the Civil War were collected in several volumes. He spent time in the hospitals that were filled with the casualties from both sides, and the carnage led him to conclude,

“I now doubt whether one can get a fair idea of what this war practically is, or what genuine America is, and her character, without some such experience as this I am having. “

Whitman wrote of his difficulty to produce an “authentic” portrait of the war and in the essay titled “The Real War Will Never Get in the Books” (1875)  in Specimen Days, he wrote

Future years will never know the seething hell and the black infernal background of countless minor scenes and interiors…

….Think how much, and of importance, will be—how much, civic and military, has already been—buried in the grave, in eternal darkness.

John Kracen shared his own story with a crowd on Memorial Day to commemorate the sacrifice his friend Stephen Hock made, a sacrifice like so many other American soldiers who now lay buried in the grave, in eternal darkness. Kracen’s emotional account of the disastrous fire on the USS Forrestal was compelling because it was his first hand, his authentic account, his own story.

Research proves that our brains are hard-wired for such stories. We tell our children stories to explain how the world works; our children learn the quality of empathy through story.

This past Memorial Day in Bridgewater, the small boy sitting on the curb, the students in the school’s marching band, and the parents in the crowd heard Kracen tell his story of his experience during the fire on the USS Forrestal. They heard a powerful real war story, one that may never, as Whitman said, get in the books.

6 responses to A War Story Not in Books: Memorial Day in Bridgewater, CT

    Elisa Kracen Gaskill June 2, 2016 at 7:27 pm

    John Kracen is my father. I flew 3000 miles to hear his account of his time in Vietnam. My sister, brother and I all came together with our mother to hear, for the first time, this story from his perspective. It was moving on so many levels and we are so proud of him to have the courage to share his story.


      Thank you for telling me. I was so impressed by his courage as well. As he spoke, I thought of that Walt Whitman quote…I had recently heard an interview with an author who had used it as the last line in a book about Afghanistan. I was familiar with Whitman’s passage as one used in a Civil War unit for high school students…as an essay to connect all war experiences….and so it does.
      I reflected on how your father’s account was an example of how well history can be told through one person’s story. I know that he made a powerful contribution to those listening, and I am glad you were there to hear him.


    There’s video of the fire on YouTube. We trained to that scenario as the crew used water instead of foam, in some cases, to extinguish the fire. John McCain was also on the flight deck awaiting launch, some blamed him for the accident.


      Yes. John Kracen did give John McCain’s name as being the pilot of the plane. I learned more after the parade…lots of websites with detailed explanations…most list electrical failure for blame. My Kevin explained he had seen footage of the fire many times, including one video with McCain rolling out of the cockpit. Kracen mentioned two other names: Crispus Attucks (1st killed) and the last soldier killed in combat.. I am sorry that I did not remember that name but it is on this list: http://icasualties.org/oef/fatalities.aspx
      I know you would have appreciated hearing this story; he told it so well.


        Thank you for your comments. John McCain was the pilot of the plane that was struck by the missile. There is a book “Sailors to The End” that is the story of the mishap.


        Thank you for the clarification. You gave a very moving tribute; I was privileged to hear it.

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